In just 1 year, so much can happen. We can experience happiness, joy, love and pleasure. Yet we can also find ourselves in incredible sadness and grief, anger and fear. It is true that we endure both pain and pleasure, and its true that both of these emotions can shape our character and help us to reach greater self-realization. It is through hope that we can reflect back on a year and see growth, possibility, and positive potential.
In just 1 year, I learned of an ex-boyfriend who died in a drunk driving accident. In just 1 year, I’ve seen a best friend go through a kidney and heart transplant and come out a champion. In just 1 year, I’ve lost a friend in an avalanche. In just 1 year, I’ve had an uncle be diagnosed with Leukemia and now in remission. In just 1 year, I have been a heart-breaker and have been broken-hearted. In just 1 year, I’ve known people who have lost their home, their job, loved ones, and relationships. Some are out of our control, and some are the very cause of choices we make for ourselves.
I have also seen families begin, families grow, and babies born. It is truly a gift, this thing called life.
Give yourself some time to look back in the rear-view mirror of 2008 and remind yourself of both the pain and the pleasure that was endured by you and perhaps those around you. Remember that life is short and precious. Its gift we have. No matter your circumstance right now, whisper a thank you for this gift of life, and continue to create more positive choices (and learn from the not-so-positive) for yourself. Life only happens once.
Here’s to a healthy, happy, and peaceful to all of you in 2009.
Kelly! I am almost backkk :) I came across your BLOG and fell in love with it! I truly enjoy reading all of this - i can not wait to go home and read up! See you soon, real soon i promise!
Jennifer B
Posted by: Jennifer Barbs | February 16, 2010 at 02:44 PM
It is true we all go through events that cause changes in our lives. Changes in us and our state of being. Determined by what we see and experience. Varied experiences that can affect our outlook. Some experiences are difficult and cause us pain and discomfort, some are joyful and fill us with optimism and hope. Sometimes we wonder how we will endure through the struggle, other times the bliss seems to keep us walking on clouds and thinking all is right with the world. Most of the time we are somewhere in the middle. What I think is helpful through all these times or changes is to always keep in site what is important in this life. People. Remembering to cherish the important relationships you have, the family and friends. Also, try looking for the good in people and the world. Look for the positive. Avoid the negative. Most importantly, love yourself and pass that love on to others. It is very unlikely we will always be filled with joy in our lives, there will always be ups and downs, but keeping the underlying current that life is precious and is a gift can greatly affect how you view it. Although keeping the glass half full during our most difficult times can seem a daunting task , the cliche is true, time does make it better. Knowing there are poeple who you really care about , and care about you can carry you through almost anything, and Keeping the thought that being alive and breathing is truly a gift in itself, can help us stay grounded and embrace this one life we have.
Posted by: SB | January 07, 2009 at 04:52 PM
I also pity the one that got his heart broken by you. And if I was the one that broke yours, whenever I man up, I'll apologize.
Posted by: B | January 04, 2009 at 04:07 AM